COld Nose warm heart!

Sometimes we all feel the chill of  someone who seems to be giving us the "cold shoulder" and we tend to think that there is something wrong, and often give them the same treatment back.  The end result can be hard feelings, and in more dramatic circumstances, the end of a relationship. 

Imagine now that shockingly cold nose that your beloved fur-baby lays on your skin, making you jump, because it's so chilly! We don't tend to tell stories about why their nose is cold. We know they have a warm heart and that they love us regardless! 

Consider that when someone does seem to be a little chilly towards you, it may have nothing to do with you. In truth it might. . . But more often than not it is because they are dealing with their own story, their own stuff, and their own triggers. They are cold because they are trying to process something, and they are probably not wanting to harm the relationship at all. And, in fact can be quite devoted when things do end as a result of their behavior. 

I'm not saying that there aren't things to work out, or conversations to be had, however it is always a good idea to give others the benefit of the doubt.  Remember that a cold shoulder, just like a cold nose can still come with a warm heart! 

​Much love and wufs,

Rev Deb, Chooks and Sam! 

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